The moment consciousness is at hand, and we are facing an obnoxious situation with direct and indirect consequences to our life, it is the moment we understand the roots of suffering, and the desire consuming a person to obtain, control, or dominate a given scene. The moment we are obnoxious we are doing nothing more than trying to control the actions and reactions of another, expecting anxiously such a person would react the same way we are acting in the present moment, configuring the point characterising the inversion of control. The conditioning could be easily followed by an unconscious mind but it is also easily identified by consciousness itself. It is like spreading the word that the formation in the picture has been created by forms of life coming from another planet, with no single experience that can be performed to realise it. The moment we believe in something out of understanding, it is the moment we fall right into the trap of suffering: doing something with no idea why, and believing it is working with no idea about how, implying huge frustration, pain, and manifestation of negative emotions derived from observing something that is not what is expected.
The idea of using consciousness to understand what happens within the self, and within the surroundings, is recognising, identifying, and being aware about what kind of challenge we are facing, and what kind of measures we have to put right into our mind training to keep up with the presented challenge. It is identifying the traces of negativity we have to diminish with the counterpart present within our love nature. It is observing the different variations of similar situations to identify, and being aware of the pattern all those variations are following, establishing a protocol, program, or set of abstractions especifying conditioned rules and actions common to any negative situation we experience while facing the aforementioned variations. It is mapping the manifestation of negative emotions regarding the obnoxious actions we experience, understanding the deep connection between the unconscious mind, its conditioning, and the control we can perform to the self with consciousness at hand.
We have to remember a person being obnoxious represents a person in deep suffering, no matter the level of education, the academic background, or the area of actuation such a person comes from. The moment we start being obnoxious in with someone else to test the reaction of another, while such a person is facing the configured scenario we are fabricating, it is the moment we are already in a state of suffering, pretending we can control the reaction of the target person with little or no understanding about our own mind, making us to believe we can understand the mind of another without understanding our own.
The moment we step out of the illusion that says we can understand something out of our personal and own experiences, it is the moment we awake to the fact that reasoning is a personal experience of putting pieces of knowledge together to view what cannot be visualised apart.
Namaste 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
Written by Jeferson Souza (thejefecomp).
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