There is no need to be worried about not being able to engage in a relationship. The problem is not the self, or something else. It is simply not the right time, or not the right person for it. No matter how harsh life can be, we have to see the clear difference between illusion and reality. Reality says happiness is generated from the inside out. The counterpart illusion, otherwise, emphasises the negative conditioning stimulating the idea that we would find it in another. We may have the feeling about being dumb, as we keep looking for a relationship with no success. However, success represents the clarity of mind for not losing hope in the middle of darkness, where the common is giving up the idea of establishing a family.


One, two, three, four, no matter how many times we have tried to engage in a relationship with no success, we lose nothing to keep trying. The idea of having a relationship starts on the grounded foundation of establishing a family, which is, per se, a fundamental human right. If every time that we try to engage in a relationship, we get the negative feeling that the other is not on the same page, we have no power to do anything about that. Stepping in a period of suffering just makes things worse, and that is exactly the result expected by the negative conditioning our unconscious mind gets trapped in.


We all know that receiving a "No" is not easy to swallow if we face it the wrong way. There is always a wonderful piece of knowledge in every "No" we receive in life, which consciousness can use to enhance the self. 

The idea of evolution and adaptation does not apply for darkness. We do not need to accept or adapt to the negative conditioning that is apart from our love nature. Evolution and adaptation represent the enhancement of the self, in order to recognise the presence of negative emotions, practising our mind training to face them consciously. We are all creatures of love, and our uniqueness represents the singular jewel we all carry within.


Giving up our love nature is not an option, and keeping motivated on the goal to establish a family is a natural path to engage in. The moment we realise what we are looking for, it is the moment we understand where is the place to find it.


Namaste 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓



Written by Jeferson Souza (thejefecomp).


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