Are you alone? Do you have the feeling the world around you is not as good as it seems? Would you like to live in a world where love and compassion are fundamental values of every human being? Come with me in this journey of understanding, and read carefully my words.

It is so good to love someone else. We get a genuine smile every time we see a loved one; every time we thought about such person. We get happy to see the loved one's happiness. We count the nanoseconds to the cinema, dinner, lunch; to every moment we are able to spend together with a loved one. That feeling of joy, is it good, right? Do you want to feel it often, am I right? But, unfortunately, you are alone most of the time…

Make a wish to transform the world into a better place to live… wait… stop… we need no wish. We need actions, and the first action we can do is to start [if not already started] to love ourselves.

Life is to be lived at a unique perspective and relativity: ours. There is no way to another person to live our life in our behalf. Of course it is fantastic to have someone else to love and to spend time with but the first one we have to love, and be happy to spend time with, is ourselves.

Do you feel sad because you have to spend the friday night alone on the couch? Drop it, make popcorn, and find a good movie to watch. Have fun by yourself. Be happy. 

How do you expect to find love outside if you are not able to love yourself the way you are? Move your lazy butt and take care of yourself. Show yourself some respect.

Smile more, even if you have noone to smile to. Take care of your mind, i.e. meditate. Take care of your body, i.e. workout indoor or outdoor as your preference. Do a small step in the direction of self-love to look at the mirror to see a person you admire. The game of life is ours and we are the stars of our own game.

Are you feeling better than when you have started to read this message? Are you with a smile, even if it is a small one, on your face? It is better you do because I am happy and I send good vibrations and happiness towards your side.

Look to the picture. Lift your left hand to celebrate. Celebrate self-love. Celebrate self-care. Celebrate self-consciousness. Celebrate life. Celebrate your own happiness. Celebrate happiness of another… just celebrate.

Go to the mirror and repeat with me: I love you 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

Now, think about a loved one, or go to meet that person to say the same thing to her/him:

I love you 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

You see... it is not difficult to be happy. That is our natural state.

Namaste 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓


Written by Jeferson Souza (thejefecomp).

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