The majority of the time we may think of negative scenarios when we observe something that doesn’t fall into a given set of patterns we expect them to be fitting on. However, when something doesn’t satisfy our expectations it may not be a bad thing at all; actually, it may be quite the opposite. Our need for full control may create mind traps, which can put us into difficult situations. We aren’t talking about dishonoured, dishonest, and deceptive behaviours but things we may be overthinking or extremely eager to rule and control on the outside. And the truth is that we can control nothing on the outside, and therefore, we need to learn how to enhance the self in order to not be afraid of those variables we cannot control, which may impose divergences on our perceptions, as well as challenges and difficulties on something we’re working on in the present moment. The good news is: we’re capable of dealing with any source of negativity we may find before us from time to time. We jus...