Indifference is something we have to learn how to deal with. It is a silence, a void, which comes with a wave of negativity within. It is a careless posture, which signals the intentions of no communication, the intentions of no interaction, which every person has the right to do so. The time we realise the negativity of indifference, we are able to realise we have no choice but to accept we control just ourselves. It is a relief, indeed.

It is a relief because we know we have to master the emotions that arise when in the face of indifference. It is a relief because we have good intentions but we realise the communication channel is just in one direction, with little or no possibility of a reply back. It is a relief, which has nothing to do with manipulation but with the feeling of emptiness, as we cannot understand precisely what has happened for such silence, such void, sometimes out of the sudden. There is no explanation, no answer, no clear reason.

The negativity of indifference is quite obvious. It is to let the other side with no knowledge, and no ways of understanding. It is to turn our back on a situation with no care about what will happen next. However, although it has its negative side, sometimes, indifference is required to get out of an abusive relationship, an abusive person whom we have presented all the explanations and reasons, clearly, word by word, but it seems the person has no intention to hear them.

It is by understanding indifference we are able to see how the Psychology of a life in society works. We need no college degree, or formal education to do that. It is just to be aware and conscious of our perspective, our relativity required to start observing. The observation is personal, as well as the analyses and conclusions obtained. We have no need to violate the privacy of anyone else to do that. It is the observation from the perspective of we and ourselves alone.

The moment we start to observe, to analyse, and to draw the first conclusions about indifference, it is the moment we start to understand it is always better to walk alone than to walk with a knife in our back.

Namaste 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓


Written by Jeferson Souza (thejefecomp).

 

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